Environment has an important role in the realization of the child's
personality. Especially the family environment. Both parents are the
role players. Family environment is a home base for every human life.
Due to the importance of family influence in the education of children
in some problems such as the matter of belief, culture, norms,
emotional and etc. Family preparing a means of growth and the
formation of the child's personality early on. In other words, depending
on the child 's personality in mind and the treatment of both parents
and the environment. And do not loose with ethics and delivery of
something from the parents .
The family is part of a society, and both parents have a very important
role in realizing the child's personality. The elements that exist
within a culture of good family, schools, the economy and even the
number of family members affect the treatment and thought the child's
father and mother in particular. The influence of the family in
children's education is very large in a variety of sides. The family
that prepares potential for growth and the formation of the child's
personality. More specifically, the personality of the child depends
on the thinking and behavior of both parents as well as the environment.
Child behaviors will make falsifies chain interactions and family
members at the same time this interaction will shape his personality
gradually and provide direction and strengthen the child's behavior in
the same conditions in life.
The role of parents in bringing the child's personality.
Father and mother is the first example of the formation of children's
personalities. Beliefs, thoughts and behaviors father and mother by
itself has a profound influence on the thinking and behavior of
children. Because the human personality appears in the form of paintings
on a
wide variety of situations and conditions in the family environment.
Family act as executor factor in realizing the values, beliefs and
cultural perceptions of a society. Father and mother who must carry out
their duties in the face of his son. Especially mothers should be
focusing on keeping the moral, physical and mental in pre pregnancy to
pregnancy in the hope God gives her child a healthy and virtuous.
Both parents have a task in front of her where they should meet their
needs. Children in early life have needs that must be fulfilled. With
the fulfillment of their needs, parents will produce children cheerful
and happy. To realize the child's personality, consequently both
parents should have faith in human values in the newspaper, as well as
both parents must have knowledge related to psychological problems and
stages of change and human growth. Thus both parents in dealing with
children either in thought or menghukumi them, will be in accordance
with the benchmarks that have been specified in the newspaper.
The role of parents in bringing the child's personality, among others:
1. Both parents must love and care for her children. When the children
get enough love and affection of both parents, so when they are out of
the house and face the new problems they will be facing and finish
well. Conversely, if both parents are meddling in their affairs or
impose
their children to obey them, then the behavior of both parents so this
will be a hindrance to the perfection of their personality.
2. Both parents must keep the peace of the home environment and
preparing children peace of mind. Because this will cause the growth
potential and creativity of the children sense that ultimately their
desire and willingness to be strong and they should be given the right
to vote.
3. Mutual respect between parents and children. Yours here does not
mean being outwardly polite but besides firmness both parents, they
should pay attention to the desire and demand of natural and pure
children. Mutual respect means to reduce the negative criticism and
discussion in association with personality and behavior as well as
creating a climate of affection and familiarity, and at the same time
both parents have to keep their legal rights relating to themselves and
others. Both parents must be firm so that they also want to respect each
other.
4. Brought confidence. Appreciate and give confidence to children
means giving awards and eligibility for them, as this will make them go
forward and try and daring in attitude. Confidence of children against
itself will cause them easy to accept that there are flaws and errors in
them. They believe in themselves and confident in their own abilities.
By helping others they feel useful and important presence.
5. Hold family gatherings and meetings ( both parents and children ).
By looking at the curiosities of nature and the soul needs child, they
always want to know about himself. The second task is to give parents
information about the composition of the body and the changes and growth
of their children against them. In addition parents should introduce
them on issues of faith, morality and the laws of jurisprudence and
human life. If both parents are not as good reference points and enough
for their children then the children will be looking for another
example, either or both, and it will set up a means of diversion
children.
The role of the family in educating children.
The task of educating children is the primary task of a very large role
to the success of the family. As rich and successful as any life of a
family, may be not mean anything when the child turns out we can not be
expected personally as a parent, even slipping into the abyss of error
and disobedience.
Many people misunderstand the task of educating the child, whether the
task or whether Mother Father? Most of the total surrender to mother's
father, while the mother complained mostly because dad totally
innocent hands.
This task is a shared responsibility father and mother, with the father
remained as primarily responsible. However, this task must be carried
out by the father, because the mother that can help children there.
Mom even has a character trait that is more appropriate as an educator
of children. Because technically mother was the one who then is
responsible for the child's education, then it is the duty of father to
educate his wife was so clever.
And the most important is that the father and mother are the only
example of a first for her children in the formation of personality, as
well as children are not aware they will be affected, then both
parents here serves as an exemplary role model for them both at the
level of theoretical as well as practical. Father and mother before
they teach religious values and moral and emotional to her children,
they first have to practice it themselves .
