Family role in shaping the personality of children

Environment has an important role in the realization of the child's personality. Especially the family environment. Both parents are the role players. Family environment is a home base for every human life. Due to the importance of family influence in the education of children in some problems such as the matter of belief, culture, norms, emotional and etc. Family preparing a means of growth and the formation of the child's personality early on. In other words, depending on the child 's personality in mind and the treatment of both parents and the environment. And do not loose with ethics and delivery of something from the parents .

 

The family is part of a society, and both parents have a very important role in realizing the child's personality. The elements that exist within a culture of good family, schools, the economy and even the number of family members affect the treatment and thought the child's father and mother in particular. The influence of the family in children's education is very large in a variety of sides. The family that prepares potential for growth and the formation of the child's personality. More specifically, the personality of the child depends on the thinking and behavior of both parents as well as the environment. Child behaviors will make falsifies chain interactions and family members at the same time this interaction will shape his personality gradually and provide direction and strengthen the child's behavior in the same conditions in life.

 

The role of parents in bringing the child's personality.

 

Father and mother is the first example of the formation of children's personalities. Beliefs, thoughts and behaviors father and mother by itself has a profound influence on the thinking and behavior of children. Because the human personality appears in the form of paintings on a wide variety of situations and conditions in the family environment.

 

Family act as executor factor in realizing the values, beliefs and cultural perceptions of a society. Father and mother who must carry out their duties in the face of his son. Especially mothers should be focusing on keeping the moral, physical and mental in pre pregnancy to pregnancy in the hope God gives her child a healthy and virtuous.

 

Both parents have a task in front of her where they should meet their needs. Children in early life have needs that must be fulfilled. With the fulfillment of their needs, parents will produce children cheerful and happy. To realize the child's personality, consequently both parents should have faith in human values ​​in the newspaper, as well as both parents must have knowledge related to psychological problems and stages of change and human growth. Thus both parents in dealing with children either in thought or menghukumi them, will be in accordance with the benchmarks that have been specified in the newspaper.

 

The role of parents in bringing the child's personality, among others:

 

1. Both parents must love and care for her children. When the children get enough love and affection of both parents, so when they are out of the house and face the new problems they will be facing and finish well. Conversely, if both parents are meddling in their affairs or impose their children to obey them, then the behavior of both parents so this will be a hindrance to the perfection of their personality.

 

2. Both parents must keep the peace of the home environment and preparing children peace of mind. Because this will cause the growth potential and creativity of the children sense that ultimately their desire and willingness to be strong and they should be given the right to vote.

 

3. Mutual respect between parents and children. Yours here does not mean being outwardly polite but besides firmness both parents, they should pay attention to the desire and demand of natural and pure children. Mutual respect means to reduce the negative criticism and discussion in association with personality and behavior as well as creating a climate of affection and familiarity, and at the same time both parents have to keep their legal rights relating to themselves and others. Both parents must be firm so that they also want to respect each other.

 

4. Brought confidence. Appreciate and give confidence to children means giving awards and eligibility for them, as this will make them go forward and try and daring in attitude. Confidence of children against itself will cause them easy to accept that there are flaws and errors in them. They believe in themselves and confident in their own abilities. By helping others they feel useful and important presence.

 

5. Hold family gatherings and meetings ( both parents and children ). By looking at the curiosities of nature and the soul needs child, they always want to know about himself. The second task is to give parents information about the composition of the body and the changes and growth of their children against them. In addition parents should introduce them on issues of faith, morality and the laws of jurisprudence and human life. If both parents are not as good reference points and enough for their children then the children will be looking for another example, either or both, and it will set up a means of diversion children.

 

The role of the family in educating children.

 

The task of educating children is the primary task of a very large role to the success of the family. As rich and successful as any life of a family, may be not mean anything when the child turns out we can not be expected personally as a parent, even slipping into the abyss of error and disobedience.

 

Many people misunderstand the task of educating the child, whether the task or whether Mother Father? Most of the total surrender to mother's father, while the mother complained mostly because dad totally innocent hands.

 

This task is a shared responsibility father and mother, with the father remained as primarily responsible. However, this task must be carried out by the father, because the mother that can help children there. Mom even has a character trait that is more appropriate as an educator of children. Because technically mother was the one who then is responsible for the child's education, then it is the duty of father to educate his wife was so clever.

 

And the most important is that the father and mother are the only example of a first for her children in the formation of personality, as well as children are not aware they will be affected, then both parents here serves as an exemplary role model for them both at the level of theoretical as well as practical. Father and mother before they teach religious values ​​and moral and emotional to her children, they first have to practice it themselves .